Society, emotions and perspectives.

Expressing your emotions

Every human being has emotions, but they are sometimes very difficult to be indicated or to really be acknowledged in some instances.

That's why it’s very important to possess of emotional intelligence to know how to respond in particular situations but also to fully understand where a person is coming from.

To begin with one of the most important emotions that isn’t always prioritized, happiness.

Happiness is unfortunately not always being prioritized by people, because they have a certain perspective of happiness.

Materialistic satisfaction

A couple examples are when people believe that having something in your possessions will define actual happiness, this doesn’t always have to be true since possessions only provide a temporarily amount of happiness since it does fill a void but not your actual state of being.

People adapt different coping mechanisms to masquerade the fact that they aren’t happy, these materialistic purchases seem to make individuals more confident, but this is only temporarily valuable.

When you purchase something in a sporicidal matter it's not per say an issue to sometimes find a certain degree of distraction because you like shopping as an interest you like to do during your spare time which is totally normal, and not directly something to be concerned about.

Influencers and their undeniable impact

Generally this generation does rely on material possessions due the fact that many influencers are portraying this image of opulence which make millennials question their state of being and feeling pressured to achieve the same amount of wealth these influencers are broadcasting to their fans.

Unfortunately, millennials are easily influenced through the media ever since the digital age has circulated and they are quickly adapting the information they are getting since the exposure is spreading instantly across different nations, regions and even nationally.

Meaning that these influencers are portraying an inauthentic image that makes people feel less accomplished or even less worthy to some degree because others are perceiving it as being superior to others or even the standard of being an accomplished human being in this decade.

However this is completely untrue, sadly enough many millennials rely on what they are being influenced on especially what they are seeing on tv or perhaps even what they are conversing about in other territories as schools their part-time jobs or even when they are participating with other activities after or during their school time.

Hence why it’s very important to remember that not all the influencers are actually authentically portraying what their actual lives look like.

You-tubers for instance have many endorsements that support their brand just to receive money by them and are using product placements to advertise the brand they happen to endorse and in some instances companies do also provide their participants a rental house or car for a limited time.

Not confessing that this is always the case but regarding a great amount of Youtubers this seems to be how they operate and how they even have a brand to begin with.

Society’s perception of beauty and perfection

There are also a few You-tubers that have actually earned their money in a appropriate matter but they usually do not show a lot of their material possessions regardless of them having a lot or not.

Millennial's are also relying on beauty standards due the fact that there are a lot of perceptions concerning the younger generation specifically when it comes down to body times and facial structures that are quite unrealistic or just very difficult to achieve.

Society has a certain image that embodies beauty and many young women and men are both affected by this perception, they feel pressured to completely change their bodies and faces since there is a specific standard that beauty holds in this era.

These young women and men are can experience serious consequences when they are not attentively executing plans regarding surgery and even visit unqualified surgeons which is very endangering and it can be a risk for their health and in the most devastating cases even their own lives.

Regardless of age there are a lot of topics circulating hence why many people feel insecure and unsure about themselves in a very destructive way, in conclusion the way society does in some cases pressure people to be or even behave in certain ways is very destructive and could cause not only physical problems but many mental problems too, because many younger adults and teenagers are perceiving such executions as the only gateway to true happiness.

Adults and their conception of happiness

If we are talking about adults the narrative might be similar but the topics regarding actual happiness is quite the contrary in many cases.

Adults do of course also rely on their looks but this happens to be a fraction of what they really want to prioritize , especially after a certain age people feel the need to be established specifically to be accomplished with a particular status.

Due the oppression of opulence many individuals feel pressured to maintain an image that outsiders perceive as a perfect exhibit of an accomplished individual and this is also targeting both men and women past their adolescences.

The immaculate image of being grown

It might be recognizable in various countries and cultures that parents usually try to force their children to study for a specific occupation and to start a family with for instance three or more children along side a marriage with a “qualifying” husband or wife, these are standards that not only conservative countries share but even in nations that have a liberal mindset.

Because of this perception many adults want to maintain their crafts which is not necessarily a bad thing but the way they are coping with it is actually very destructive especially because they tend to remain their focus on only their jobs to be perceived as diligent individuals so they won’t be perceived as lethargic people who have no ambitions or aspirations within their lives.

This conception can create a lot of pressure and make the other feels less superior because they don’t have a high degree in science or an immaculate doctors degree or because they haven’t found their compatible counterpart in an instant.

Society perceives this as the main priorities every adult needs to possess or at least need to attempt to achieve when they are actually not wanting to rush any of those situations, which is unfortunately hard to avoid when people are constantly remembering those individuals to reach that certain goal and this can make the adults feel unhappy and not established.

Approaching the age of being responsible

Most of these perspectives are also coming with age, some people think it is important to immediately settle down when you’re between the ages of 18-25 when this is actually supposed to be the time you’re able to explore yourself and actually getting to know what you want to achieve to achieve yourself but also what you’re aspiring to find in another person, aside of that people do not need to achieve something they are not willing to do voluntarily and they should focus or study for what they want in life.

Age is literally nothing but a reminder of your enduring existence

Age is only an indication of how old you are, this may sound very logical but many individuals seem to forget this, when a woman or man is reaching their thirties does not necessarily mean that they have to settle down and life in the most appealing mansions, if this happens to be their goal and they are striving to reach it, they are entitled to take the time they think it requires.

It only takes kindness to encourage others

In conclusion it is highly recommended to first analyze your qualities and how you’re able to display them to the actual world than rather having people sorting you out and what actually could be complementary to your wishes regarding an occupation or even a partner.

Please remember that it’s already challenging to be a human being that is obliged to execute certain tasks within this diabolical world and it shouldn’t be that complicated to at least attempt to be supportive towards the people you’re surrounded with but also people who you maybe have just encountered, when you are able to be yourself in an authentic matter people will easily be able to express their thoughts aside of that able to authentically love the person you developed yourself to become.